Wednesday, February 12, 2014

how to get your eyes off your spouse


when i first got married, i thought that marriage was about me. i wouldn’t have said that, of course. but the reason i got married in the first place is because i loved how he loved me. i loved how i felt around him. i loved how secure he made me feel. i loved that i would be taken care of and that i wouldn’t be lonely anymore.
for our first year, it was fun and fast paced. we did a lot of things really fast like buy a house, buy a car, and well…have a baby. ....
i'm guest posting over at my friend anna's blog today! you can read the rest of this post over  there!
smooches(jk),
jami

4 comments:

  1. LOVED that post. your writing moves me every time.

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  2. That was perfect. I needed to hear this story so much this morning. Thank you for sharing! What an amazing perspective change for Valentines Day.

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  3. i hate to admit it and although i am a devote christian, i have been that other woman before. i've realized from my life-experiences as a single woman that it is important for us as sisters in Christ to respect one another as women and respect each other's marriages. that is something i was lacking when I was in my early twenties.

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    1. oh the twenties. so many things i wish i didn't do! anyway, affairs are easy to get wrapped up in single or married...

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